I forgot the wife doesn't do spicy. I really enjoyed this dish, but it was spicy enough to clear my nose out. It was a mild sweet heat from the Gochujang paste. I doubled the sauce but not the paste and really enjoyed the dish even though it had a good amount of heat. Served it over rice and it was very filling. Next time I make this, I'll leave the paste out of the sauce for the meat and just put it in the spicy mayonnaise mix so that my wife can enjoy it.